1. What are 3 things your spouse would love to do as a married couple? Have you made efforts to see that those things happen without them having to ask?
2. What are 3 things your spouse would love to do by themselves or with their friends? Have you made an effort to schedule/surprise them by scheduling those times?
3. Have you sent your spouse a thank you card or shown (not told) gratitude towards them for what they bring to the marriage/relationship? (And this needs to be done without expecting anything to be said to you in return about how freaking great you are)
4. Is your marriage intimate enough for the both of you and if not, would scheduling intimacy time rectify this challenge? (Remember: Better Scheduled than Not to happen at all)
As we all know, marriage takes work! Remember the rough times come when we stop focusing on what we can do to better the marriage and begin focusing on the areas our spouse may be lacking.
And begin to prop your spouse up and show them gratitude and begin or continue to pass the test on the way to a Perfect Marriage.
I Love You for Stopping!